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Relationship and Dating Question for You Dear Reader

Posted by Love Coach Rinatta Paries on January 7, 2008.
Category: Affairs Q & A, BreakUps & Divorce Q & A, Dating Q & A, Marriage Q & A, Relationship Q & A, Singles Q & A.

My turn to ask you a question, dear reader. Please leave your answer in the comments below.

What would you like to know MOST about how to - attract a new or re-mold the old - relationship you have always wanted?

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How Do I Deal With His Insecurity

Posted by Love Coach Rinatta Paries on October 19, 2006.
Category: Affairs Q & A, BreakUps & Divorce Q & A, Dating Q & A, Marriage Q & A, Relationship Q & A, Singles Q & A.

Q. Carey asks:

Hi! I am 33 and have been dating what seems to be a very insecure guy who is a bit younger than me. He is very jealous, and is always accusing me of wanting to break up with him or of having another man. I thought maybe he was trying to tell me that HE indeed wanted to break up, but when I confronted him, he said he never wanted to break up with me. I am a little tired of all of it, but I really do like this guy. Can you give me any advice on how to stop this game he plays? Thank you

A. Love Coach Rinatta Paries answers:

Carey, your guy has one of two things going on. Either he is very insecure indeed and is asking for reassurance, or he is trying to build up his selfesteem by demanding that you declare your faithfulness and affection for him on a regular basis.

To find out which one of these two things is going on, take a look at the rest of his life. If he is timid and hesitant, needing lots of reassurance in general, then he really is just insecure. Insecurity is annoying to deal with, but there are worst things, and it can get better with time and some help.

On the other hand, if he seems more self-centered and selfish in the rest of his life, then he is using you to build up or keep up his selfesteem. This is more problematic, but it can still be dealt with effectively.
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