Comments on: How Do I Get Over So Much Hurt?

By: Anonymous 2

Anonymous 2 — Mon, 09 Jul 2007 00:45:43 +0000

Hi there,
I have been with my partner and apart from a few hiccups along the way it has been good until now.
I have never got along with his mum and his parents have seperated and i get along with the dads side of the family just fine, the other day we were talking and he said his mum has made him choose between me and him, that broke my heart, i am lost confused and i cant move on i have devoted most of my life to him, i cant stand the fact of loosing him, we live together but he is living at his mums house at the moment what can i do to get past all this and try to prove to him how we can do it, i have started to drink and it is affecting my life and i feel him slipping away and away, i have tried the silent treatment and that dont work, as his mum is infulencing his decisions, what can i do i cant move on with out him.

By: shelby

shelby — Thu, 02 Nov 2006 14:13:00 +0000

im going thru the same thing but i realized if its meant to be it will be, you cant make someone love you back but you can only wait and hope that if its right it will be. you just have to give it time and the more you are away from that person the more they begin to think. if you chase them you show weakness, and you dont want that, its like letting them see you suffer while they get what they want. let go and wait for the other ones decision, until then there isnt anything else you can do but wait and move on.

By: anonymous

anonymous — Wed, 21 Jun 2006 03:01:06 +0000

how does one get over someone they love or think they love…is there an easy answer or is it based on time and working towardz a better goal or should i just keep getting drunk and hope the thought of the love fades from my mind….man i am confused on this subject and goin through alot of hurt plz help